
By Phil Aghedo
When I met my husband, he had just been divorced. His wife had deserted him, leaving behind their two young children. Around the same time, he also lost his job. Now he had no wife, no job, and no money.
His life might have seemed miserable and uninviting to most young women. But despite all his troubles, I was attracted to him and wanted to marry him.
When my parents and friends discovered I was interested in this man, they were angry with me. Why would I want to marry an unemployed, divorced father of two?
Yet no matter how hard my friends and family tried to separate us, I was determined not to be dissuaded from this relationship. Each time I saw this man with his children, my heart melted. I had boundless love for him, and nothing people said could make me change my mind.
But their fears worried me. I began to wonder why I was so strongly attracted to this man and his children.
One night, the Inner Master gave me an answer. I had a dream where I was shown a vivid scene, as if I were watching a television show.
In the scene, there was a man and his wife with two little children. The husband and wife had a serious disagreement. Their argument led the wife to abandon her husband and children and get a divorce.
Filled with pity and compassion, I watched as the man struggled to raise his children alone. I blamed the wife for her callousness. Then the Inner Master spoke to me.
“You are the lady in that scene,” he said. In that lifetime, those two children were yours, and you abandoned them. Now they are back in your life, and you have the opportunity to give them the love you denied them in that previous incarnation.”
I awoke filled with shame for my reckless conduct in that lifetime. But I was grateful to the Mᴀʜᴀɴᴛᴀ for giving me an answer to my question. Now I knew why I had such love for this man and his children. We’d been together in a past life. This current lifetime held an opportunity to resolve the karma between all of us.
Eventually, my parents let go of their concerns, and we contracted our marriage a few months later. Today we are a happy family and have been blessed with more children. My husband’s new business is also flourishing.
I am grateful for this past-life dream from the Inner Master. It helped me see a greater truth about my relationship with my husband and his two children. It also showed me that all my experiences in life come from choices I made in the past.
Now I know that the relationships in my life are sacred opportunities to help me take another step on my journey home to God.