
By Jocelyne Durand and William Meekins
William:
I lost my wife of twenty-five years in December 1996. The following months brought a lonely time of coming to terms with my loss. In June 1997, with my grief finally beginning to lighten, I started wondering what a new love would be like. I just knew I would not live the rest of my life alone. I began telling my friends that I would know the new love of my life just by looking in her eyes.
In October 1997, I attended the ECK Worldwide Seminar in Minneapolis, Minnesota, with a great sense of love and anticipation. During the Friday afternoon session of the seminar, I went to a workshop titled “How to Master Change in Your Life.” Participants in the workshop were asked to create a collage of pictures and words as part of a goal-setting exercise.
I put on my goal sheet that I wanted to find someone who would bring some joy back into my life. My collage incuded a couple dancing, a smiling woman with a big red heart over her head, and the words Get connected today and Spontaneous.
How could I know that within five and a half hours my goal would be realized?
Jocelyne:
In 1995, a series of puzzling events began for me. First, in May of that year, I received a strong inner message that I should begin straightening out my life to make way for a new relationship. In December 1996 I had a dream. In the dream, I received a phone call from a man who told me that, although I did not yet know him, I was to become his wife. I was both uneasy and curious.
Six months after that dream, in June 1997, I had another. I was in a roomful of people seated at tables who were choosing partners. I immediately recognized an old friend I had not seen in lifetimes. “What are you doing here?” I asked in surprise as I seated myself at his table. We chatted about the issues that might come up between us as a couple, the greatest being that he was English-speaking, whereas my native language is French. “That won’t be a problem,” he reassured me. I awoke remembering his facial features and his thick salt-and pepper gray hair.
Finally, in October 1997, accepting a friend’s invitation, I decided at the last minute to attend the ECK Worldwide Seminar in Minneapolis, Minnesota.
William:
On Friday evening of the seminar, following the evening program, I returned to my room, changed clothes, and headed to the dance. At age fifty, after twenty-five years of marriage, I felt just like a recycled teenager, shy and awkward. After unsuccessfully trying to find a dance partner, I gave up, asked the Mᴀʜᴀɴᴛᴀ to choose for me the next one to dance with, and joined my roommate and friend, Bryan, who was seated at a table.
Jocelyne:
A gentleman I had met on the flight from Toronto to Minneapolis had invited me to join him at the Friday night dance. I entered the room about 10:30 p.m. but found him deeply engaged in conversation with another woman. Looking around for someone else to talk with, I started chatting with a new man at the table, who introduced himself as Bryan.
About 11:00 p.m., the disc jockey changed gears from fast dance music to a slow romantic mood. I returned to Bryan’s table to find him chatting with a gray-haired man.
“Jocelyne, may I introduce you to a good friend of mine, William?”
“Pleased to meet you, William.” There was something familiar about this man.
“Jocelyne, how come you’re not dancing?” asked William.
“No men around,” I joked.
I’ll take care of that,” he said, grabbing my hand and leading me to the dance floor. My hand felt very good in his.
William:
It felt so good to hold her hand. As we danced, I looked into Jocelyne’s eyes, and I knew she was the one.
Jocelyne:
As we danced, I realized this was the man from my dreams. I spoke French. He spoke English. There were tables all around us. And I recognized him! His face and the gray hair I had seen in my dream!
William:
The next day I returned to the How to master Change workshop to declare to all who would listen that my goal-setting exercise had produced results in less than six hours!
Jocelyne:
The very next day, William and I sat at a hotel dining room table. “You and I both know where this is leading,” he said. I could hardly believe my ears. Of course I knew. I had seen him in my dream. But how could he know too?
William and Jocelyne:
A year later, we were married at the Temple of ECK in Chanhassen, Minnesota, just days before the 1998 ECK Worldwide Seminar. Our friend Bryan, a member of the ECK clergy, who had introduced us the year before, performed the ceremony. We now know that love endures through the ages. We are so grateful to the Mᴀʜᴀɴᴛᴀ, our inner teacher, for leading us so gently and surely to our reunion in this life.