My husband killed himself. I feel great pain and loneliness, and so do my children. Can you help me understand why my husband did this and what I can do to heal? Why do people commit suicide?
Life simply becomes too much of a burden for some because they look for spiritual love but can’t find it. They feel they have no choice but to end the impasse by taking their own life.
Your husband is in a class now so he can get a fuller understanding of the privilege of coming into a physical body for spiritual maturity. He did not understand this. This does not mean he’s put in some kind of hell for a certain time, because the spiritual structure is designed to educate, rather than punish, those people who harm themselves by suicide.
The greatest misunderstanding is thinking that one needs to withdraw from life in order to be a spiritual giant and successful with the God Consciousness. Nothing could be further from the truth.
One can always take his life, of course. This does not lead to God, but it leads back to a baby body almost immediately. Then all the tests and trials start over again until Soul comes to know what it means to become a Coworker with God. When people write me about this, I usually tell them to seek a trained, licensed counselor who can help them understand some of the responsibilities that go along with living.
All too often a person has damaged himself emotionally and mentally through austerities before he found the path of Eᴄᴋᴀɴᴋᴀʀ, the spiritual way that teaches balance and moderation in all departments of living. By then, their only real aid must come through licensed medical and counseling practitioners.
Self-destruction is not the way. How can one leave the worlds of God?
—Sri Harold Klemp