I have heard the saying “eye for eye, tooth for tooth.” What techniques can be used so our actions are aligned with Divine Spirit? How can we forgive ourselves and not feel guilty when we judge or hurt someone we love?
“Eye for eye, tooth for tooth” is the strict Law of Karma. This law is to teach people self-responsibility. It’s unforgiving. Under it, people hope others get punished.
A higher law is the Law of Love. With this law comes the understanding that indeed what will be will be. But the difference here is that we do not wish or expect others to get punished for their misdeeds. Instead, we give them love in return.
How does this work out in daily life?
If someone cheats us out of our property or goods, we will, of course, try to get it back by whatever legal means possible. The difference is that we will do so without feelings of hatred or anger. Such feelings tie us to the strict Law of Karma.
How can you forgive yourself? Just do it. Apologize, then, for your thoughtless behavior and try to do better next time. Don’t just try—do it.
And always apologize with thoughts of the Inner Master’s love for you.
—Sri Harold Klemp